Tonight, I accepted an invitation, spontaneously, to go out and play darts with some new friends. It was 8:30pm and I am usually getting ready for bed. All the excuses flew through my head but my mouth said, "yes." So I went and had a great time. I didn't turn into a pumpkin. Yes, it's late for me, and I'm ready for bed but tomorrow is holiday so I can sleep in. (reminder: one of my 2009 goals was to find a new circle of friends not predicated on work or alcohol)